It's the Christmas season and the question "What do you tell your kids?" is starting to surface. I just wanted to share how it works in our house. My kids see Santa impersonators and call him Santa. They're not anti-Santa. My youngest doesn't really understand it all to begin with. My other 2 know that it's a regular person like us dressed up in a costume.
The story we tell our kids is of God's greatness and goodness. We open our bibles and read the Christmas story. The greatest gift ever given was God's son Jesus Christ. We now have a hope and peace that can't be replaced or outdid by any human gift. We tell our children that God has blessed us throughout the year so that we can bless them and others with gifts. We do a lot of donating throughout the year and even more in the month of December. We go shopping so they can pick something out for others. We want our kids to have an understanding that it's not what they get, but what they give, and that doesn't stop with materialistic things either. Why not have this mentality and spirit year round? It doesn't just have to be the Christmas season to pour out love and blessings.
We still sing all the Christmas songs whether Santa is mentioned or not. We still have ornaments and wrapping paper with Santa on them. It's not like we pretend the persona doesn't exist.
I have told my kids that they are not allowed to tell other children that Santa isn't real. Those children will find out one day and it's not my kids' place to interfere. My kids know the truth about it. Someday these other children will eventually find out that Santa doesn't really come to their house when they're sleeping, so we don't even go there. Now, they are free to share why WE celebrate Christmas. Everyone should be aware of that!
My kids are still very excited to see what is put under the tree for them. It's still a joyous and "magical" time. I just pray that my kids will always remember the reason for the season and will pass it on to their children. If it wasn't for Jesus there would be no gifts under a tree, no Santa, and no Christmas.
Bible verses for the Christmas Story:
*Info from St. Nicholas Center
Love it! You said it all so well. : )ReplyDelete
Yes - it's all about giving in our house too!ReplyDelete
And, btw, since your kids look like they like to do arty things, you might be interested in a new e-book that just came out last month called "Truth in the Tinsel - An Advent Experience for Little Hands" - it has the Christmas story broken down into parts so that you can do a bit each day - including making a small ornament to go with it. We've had lots of fun doing it:) If you're interested, you can google it - there's also a FB page and you can see what everyone's making:)
(and it's only $4.99)
Thanks for sharing with me. I bought it! It's awesome and can't wait to get started with the kiddos.ReplyDelete
I love this post....by the way I also bought the "Truth in the Tinsel" We are having lots of fun.ReplyDelete